BNOnyc at The Caulfield, NYC

2/15/12

On my list of to do's for 2012 I had written down "attend at least 5 networking events". I'm already off to a great start with my first one being Blogger's Night Out in NYC last weekend. I met some truly fabulous ladies and had a wonderful time. There was a great turn out (as you can hopefully see below!) and you can bet I will be in attendance to their next event.


Is there any better city? 


The evenings gift bag's were amazing. They were stuffed with gift cards and goodies, and tons of products from one of my new favorite companies, BirchBox. 


The event had an amazing turn out, and I was thrilled to be able to be apart of it! 


The Experience at Erin Ax Events

2/2/12

"I've found that when you combine the relaxing sounds of the ocean, the soft white sand beneath your bare feet, and a refreshing glass of crisp sauvignon blanc or sparkling soda, the stress of the day or week quickly fades away".

Jacqueline Whitmore
Poised for Success

I have been reading the book, Poised for Success, and it has truly opened my eyes in more ways then I had anticipated. It's made me realize what more I can be providing for my clients. 

When I had made my list of things I had wanted my clients to remember me for,  at the top of my list wasn't just creating an amazing wedding day, but creating an amazing planning experience. 

I know that career stress paired with everyday life can get even the most organized and excited bride stressed out every now and again. But that's where I want to come in. I want to be an escape from all the stress and havoc life brings. Wouldn't you much rather enjoy planning your wedding over a latte at your most favorite cozy cafe, or maybe even over a tasty beverage on a warm summer day at the beach? THAT'S the experience I want to create. I want couples to look back on their wedding and the months leading up to it as the fun and exciting time that it actually is. 

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Ideal Client and Relationships

1/26/12

I was prompted to write this post after several eye openers today. I had a coffee date with a dear friend and vendor, then read ltdLIVE on the train ride home, to then find myself seeing this post by Emily Ley. 

As a business owner doing it all on my own, branding and finding my ideal client has definitely taken not only trial and error, but years of figuring out what it is I don't want. Today I believe I am ready to acknowledge who it is I am trying to reach. 

"My ideal client and friend is in her mid to late twenties, and believes in clean, understated elegance. She pairs J.Crew cashmere with a Tory Burch clutch, and enjoys her lattes in a venti cup. Her planner that manages her busy and fulfilling life is neatly tucked into her Louis Vuitton never full alongside her iPhone, lip gloss, and sunglasses. She knows how get gussied up in her little black dress for a candle lit evening, but still adores her ripped jeans and baseball tee when attending a sporting event with her fiance. She loves Sunday meetings over mimosa's and brunch, and casual coffee dates with friends and loved ones (pastries included). She appreciates and believes in thoughtful, hand written notes, and is always the first to send a birthday card. She is decisive while still being open to being inspired. She understands the true meaning of friendship, and knows that life is too short to cry over spilled milk."


"“She” doesn’t exist as a REAL person, rather the description of her describes who I want as part of my life – professionally or personally". Perfectly put by Ms Emily herself. 

After having done this today, I am ready and willing to shape my brand, communications, collateral, and interactions to attract and connect with "her". I look forward to meeting her (and you).